Author: Kyle Benson

Kyle is a healthy relationship coach fascinated with the science of love & relationships. He loves helping couples revitalize relationships in the bedroom and out. Salsa dancer. Traveler. Power lifter. Learn more here.

Insecurity: If Only You Loved Me As Much As I Loved You

Insecurity: If Only You Loved Me As Much As I Loved You

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Much of what we do in love happens without thinking.

Meet Katrina and Kevin. They’ve been married for 7 years, and have two little girls.

When asked about their relationship problems, Katrina starts first: “He’s pissed at everyone. Me.… Continue reading Here

6 Steps To Becoming An Emotionally Available Lover

6 Steps To Becoming An Emotionally Available Lover

Hey Kyle, I read your last few articles about emotionally unavailable partners. It makes a lot of sense that you recommend others to avoid those of us with those flaws. Personally, I don’t want to be this way, but my childhood experiences, failed relationships, and lack of growth in becoming more emotionally available is downright depressing.Continue reading Here

3 Reasons Why You Fall For Emotionally Unavailable Partners

3 Reasons Why You Fall For Emotionally Unavailable Partners

My most common client is in a relationship with an emotionally unavailable partner. They don’t know what to do and they don’t understand why their partner treats them the way they do.

Their partner says they are committed to the relationship, but their behavior tells a different story.… Continue reading Here

You Are Only As Troubled As The Relationship You’re In

You Are Only As Troubled As The Relationship You’re In

“All happiness or unhappiness solely depends upon the quality of the [person] to which we are attached by love.” -Baruch Spinoza

Meet Steven. Steven has decided to become a psychoanalyst. Before starting class, the graduate school requires students to spend a year in therapy.… Continue reading Here

Attachment Theory Explains Why Your Relationships Fail

Attachment Theory Explains Why Your Relationships Fail

The beliefs you adopt in pursuing your relationships determines the type of relationships you end up with.

We are attracted to those who confirm the beliefs we hold about ourselves.

Meet Miguel. Miguel plays games, hides his true intentions, and manipulates women to stay in a relationship with him.… Continue reading Here

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