Seeing the world through rose-colored glasses makes us happier. It motivates us to try harder when we encounter obstacles in our way. It serves us well to spin negative events into positive ones; viewing a few bad interactions with the opposite gender as an opportunity for growth. … Continue reading Here
Each of us are hindered by our beliefs. This is not the issue. The issue is that like the elephants, we lack the awareness to realize which beliefs are hindering us the most. Changing your beliefs is a process of rewiring your mind and pruning away the behaviors that don’t serve you.… Continue reading Here
As a man was passing elephants, he suddenly stopped, confused by the fact that these huge creatures were being held by only a small rope tied to their front leg. No chains, no cages. It was obvious that the elephants could, at anytime, break away from their bonds but for some reason, they did not.
When our intimacy button differs from our partner, we are bound to enter into the “perfect storm” that prevents both parties from getting what they want. It’s like starting a weight loss program that entails eating big macs and supersized french fries five times a day.… Continue reading Here
Far too often I work with guys that feel like they get walked on in their dating life. They’re unsure if the person they like reciprocates those feelings back. Most of these guys struggle in their dating lives because they choose not to assert themselves in fear of being rejected, or being deemed unmanly for seeming needy.… Continue reading Here
Sometimes we lose our sense of self in a relationship. We can feel a love so deep, it can be as if we’ve become one with our partner and the universe. It’s a unique, fairy-tale experience, and it’s what psychologists call a collapse of the ego state.… Continue reading Here