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2 Hidden Ways We Sabotage Intimacy In The Relationship We Want

2 Hidden Ways We Sabotage Intimacy In The Relationship We Want
The strange ways we sabotage intimacy
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Do you have a pattern of being attracted to an emotionally unavailable intimate partner who is emotionally protected and difficult to get close with?

Or do you have a history of pushing away the sort of person who is available, caring, and easy to get close with?… Continue reading Here

Attachment Theory Explains Why Your Relationships Fail

Attachment Theory Explains Why Your Relationships Fail

The beliefs you adopt in pursuing your relationships determines the type of relationships you end up with.

We are attracted to those who confirm the beliefs we hold about ourselves.

Meet Miguel. Miguel plays games, hides his true intentions, and manipulates women to stay in a relationship with him.… Continue reading Here

Why Needing a Relationship is Toxic to a Relationship

Why Needing a Relationship is Toxic to a Relationship

In our modern culture, not being in a relationship ends up causing a man to be labeled as “having a problem.”

His parents are worried. They don’t miss a chance to ask him if he’s dating anyone. His friends are trying to help by setting him up on dates with every girl they meet in Starbucks.  … Continue reading Here

Women Do Not Judge Attractiveness by a Man’s Resources

Women Do Not Judge Attractiveness by a Man’s Resources

Attractiveness is a game of blind man’s poker.

Let’s put 50 men and 50 women in a sealed hotel conference room. What happens next?

Groups would began to form.

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But how do these groups form? What is the basis for the group of men, the group of women, the mixed group and the  loners in the room?… Continue reading Here

The Man Whore Who Hated Himself

The Man Whore Who Hated Himself

There’s a woman in my bed;  she’s 32 years old and from Eastern Europe. She has long black hair, a flat stomach and piercing blue eyes. The white silk sheet is barely covering her well-proportioned tits, and she’s stunning. She watches me brush my teeth in an effort  to rinse  a taste out of my mouth.… Continue reading Here

The 6 Commandments of Vulnerable Communication

The 6 Commandments of Vulnerable Communication

Our worries can emotionally hijack our brains. They can entirely consume our thoughts in an endless vacuum of fear.

Opening yourself up, exposing who you are and what you need can be scary in our  society. We were raised to be quiet; to not be too loud or crazy.… Continue reading Here

Value Attracts Value

Value Attracts Value

In the first thirty seconds of meeting someone, you’re both paying close attention to the sub-communication. They are determining your value, and you are determining theirs. We become attracted to other people when our values match. Whether it’s our socioeconomic status, our desire to write and learn, or our joy of spending time with family and playing board games.… Continue reading Here

6 Telltale Signs Of The Most Toxic Relationship Of All

6 Telltale Signs Of The Most Toxic Relationship Of All

When our intimacy button differs from our partner, we are bound to enter into the “perfect storm” that prevents both parties from getting what they want. It’s like starting a weight loss program that entails eating big macs and supersized french fries five times a day.… Continue reading Here

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