Sexual Shame

5 Easy Ways to Make Sex More Intimate and Romantic

5 Easy Ways to Make Sex More Intimate and Romantic

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This article was originally published on The Gottman Relationship Blog.

Sex can be an uncomfortable topic for couples. Many of us feel embarrassed about our bodies or have been sexually rejected at some point. Not to mention our culture and life experiences which have created feelings of sexual shame, making romantic and intimate sex a scary endeavor to even talk about.… Continue reading Here

4 Sex Books You Must Read To Understand Sexuality & Orgasm

4 Sex Books You Must Read To Understand Sexuality & Orgasm

Why do we have sex? Why do we cheat? Why are some women able to have orgasms while others are not?

These are some of the questions I sought to answer in the month of June.

As much as society tells us that sex should be easy and anxiety freeing, it’s not.… Continue reading Here

Why Couples Stop Having Sex: The Paradox Of Yes In Saying No

Why Couples Stop Having Sex: The Paradox Of Yes In Saying No

Sexual desire is leaving the American bedroom faster than a Kansas tornado will rip apart a house.

Long-term relationships, far too often, experience a dwindling sex life. “Experts” often blame the coals of passion on women; their vanishing libido post-marriage.… Continue reading Here

5 Ways Sex Pressure From Men Kills Female Desire

5 Ways Sex Pressure From Men Kills Female Desire

Sex in a committed relationship is said to be bed-shaking, neighbor-waking and anxiety-freeing. If that’s true, then how come a committed relationship is when many of us stop wanting it?

As many of us know, it only takes one partner’s focus on an actual or anticipated sexual dysfunction to disconnect both during the act.… Continue reading Here

If You Want A Good Sex Life, Then Work At It

If You Want A Good Sex Life, Then Work At It

There is a powerful cultural script that many people agree with in terms of sex: it is believed to be instant chemistry from the very beginning. As we drink the wine of romance we become drunk in the belief that sex, even in long-term relationships, is easy, tension-free, and uninhibited.… Continue reading Here

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