Relationships

The Reason Scientists Are Confused About Attraction

The Reason Scientists Are Confused About Attraction

If you’ve ever been confused on why some scientists and researchers say “birds of a feather flock together” while others believe “opposites attract,” you’re not alone. Throughout this site, I’ve promoted the concept that we attract what we are, but this doesn’t explain why some adventure sports junkies who throw triple black flips are married to unadventurous bookworms, or why a detailed-driven CEO of a Fortune 500 company is madly in love with a lofty jewelry-maker.… Continue reading Here

The Strange Way Childhood Shapes Your Adult Relationships

The Strange Way Childhood Shapes Your Adult Relationships

Throughout the 1950’s and 1960’s, Harlow unethically experimented with monkeys in order to understand the effects of deprivation on human infants.

He raised infant monkeys in isolation.

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Despite being fed, some died. Others were frightened and behaved in an abnormal manner.  … Continue reading Here

Why Needing a Relationship is Toxic to a Relationship

Why Needing a Relationship is Toxic to a Relationship

In our modern culture, not being in a relationship ends up causing a man to be labeled as “having a problem.”

His parents are worried. They don’t miss a chance to ask him if he’s dating anyone. His friends are trying to help by setting him up on dates with every girl they meet in Starbucks.  … Continue reading Here

Why Insecure People Struggle With Vulnerability

Why Insecure People Struggle With Vulnerability

As we’ve seen on this site, vulnerable communication is the solution for finding a healthy relationship and happy life. At a glance, most treat vulnerability as if it is something every person can do. Many believe that if the person sets their mind to it, they can get their needs met in a healthy manner.… Continue reading Here

Women Do Not Judge Attractiveness by a Man’s Resources

Women Do Not Judge Attractiveness by a Man’s Resources

Attractiveness is a game of blind man’s poker.

Let’s put 50 men and 50 women in a sealed hotel conference room. What happens next?

Groups would began to form.

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But how do these groups form? What is the basis for the group of men, the group of women, the mixed group and the  loners in the room?… Continue reading Here

The Bizarre Way Invulnerability Prevents Healthy Relationships

The Bizarre Way Invulnerability Prevents Healthy Relationships

There’s a reason you’re reading this.

Perhaps you’re afraid to approach an attractive woman. Maybe you hear yourself bringing up boring topics like sports and the weather. Lots of us fall back on these topics. They’re “safe,” and surface topics that don’t risk offending anyone.… Continue reading Here

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