There’s a woman in my bed; she’s 32 years old and from Eastern Europe. She has long black hair, a flat stomach and piercing blue eyes. The white silk sheet is barely covering her well-proportioned tits, and she’s stunning. She watches me brush my teeth in an effort to rinse a taste out of my mouth.… Continue reading Here
In the first thirty seconds of meeting someone, you’re both paying close attention to the sub-communication. They are determining your value, and you are determining theirs. We become attracted to other people when our values match. Whether it’s our socioeconomic status, our desire to write and learn, or our joy of spending time with family and playing board games.… Continue reading Here
How you spend your time and what you choose to value limits you to a specific sort of woman. If you like to be outdoors, you’re going to be more compatible with a woman that likes hiking, kayaking and climbing, rather than a woman that prefers wine and books in her free time.… Continue reading Here
What do you value in a woman? Honesty? Intelligence? Beauty? What beliefs do you have about women and the world? When men tend to think of dating, they tend to think of it in terms of physical attraction and strategies meant to attract women.… Continue reading Here
It’s Easter. You’re in the grocery store, and you can’t stop staring at the blonde girl buying flowers. You feel a pull towards her. She’s beautiful.
You’re obsessively strategizing ways to introduce yourself. When we become attracted to someone, we don’t necessarily choose who it is: there’s never a logical reason behind it..… Continue reading Here
As Jared Diamond pointed out in his book Guns, Germs and Steel, there are many things that are relative to environment; humanity’s evolution, values, inventions, and even diseases. It wasn’t until food production became a resource for our ancestors that humans actually started condensing populations to smaller areas.… Continue reading Here
I’ve spent a few years treading water in online dating, swimming through speed dating events, and holding my breath at the local “meet markets.” When I really felt lonely, I could line up five or six dates a week. But the more dates I went on, the more frustrated I became with the type of women I was meeting.… Continue reading Here
Each of us are hindered by our beliefs. This is not the issue. The issue is that like the elephants, we lack the awareness to realize which beliefs are hindering us the most. Changing your beliefs is a process of rewiring your mind and pruning away the behaviors that don’t serve you.… Continue reading Here
Those of us who haven’t achieved our goals yet may be imprisoned by our beliefs about what we are deserve. Limiting beliefs are beliefs that something we desire to accomplish is impossible for some reason, therefore preventing us from taking action or responsibility towards that goal.… Continue reading Here
As a man was passing elephants, he suddenly stopped, confused by the fact that these huge creatures were being held by only a small rope tied to their front leg. No chains, no cages. It was obvious that the elephants could, at anytime, break away from their bonds but for some reason, they did not.